I see myself in 15 years living my life with the man I love and 2 children that I adore. I work at a high school with people that have disabilities. It is a joy working with people with disabilities because I learn something new every day. My house is the prettiest house around. It is two story house with lots of rooms for the children to play. I make time for my family but I also make time for my work. Work for me is something I love to work with for me is something I love to work with the students they teach me so much. Once it comes to my family I love them with all my heart and I would do anything for them. My husband helps me with grading my papers when I have to many papers to grade. My children are the sweetest kids around. They aren’t scared to meet anybody new. They help me around the house when I have a lot of work to do. I have two children a little girl named Elena and a boy named Stefan. Elena is in the 8th grade and Stefan is in the 11th grade. Stefan is a football player and Elena is into all spots.
Elena and Stefan are very close. Stefan will protect Elena whenever she needs the help. Stefan and Elena has always been close they hand out all the time and they have the same friends once it comes to their sports that they play. Elena has a lot of friend that she loves to hang out with. Once it comes to her chick friends she’s always going shopping once she has the time or when she isn’t practicing any of her sports. Stefan and his friends are always playing video games or outside playing football. Once it comes to Stefan and Elena they are titer then anything you have ever seen. They always speak their mind when one of their friends is getting picked on or they just don’t what someone said to them.
Once it comes to my work it’s like a whole different world for me. It takes me a while to grade some of my papers. These times I grade my papers at school where I can spend time with my family. I love teaching students because I learn from them and they learn from me. I always bring new things to the class room and teach them things and help them learn new things. If my student’s need help with any of their classes I would always help them.
I always make time for my family. The most important thing to me is my family they are the most wonderful thing in the world to me. We always have a sit down supper were we can talk to each other and tell each other how are day has been. There day we have family days and we go somewhere and we have fun doing whatever we want. Me and my husband normal let the kids pick the first place where we go. Then, when me and my husband picks a place to go we always try to find something that both of our kids would like.
This is where I see myself in fifteen years. With both my children, my husband and with what I will be doing as a job that I truly love to do. This is where I want to see myself fifteen years from now and live my life the way I want my life to be.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Copper Sun
Copper Sun was a great book to read, I was always reading the book when I had the chance. Copper Sun really opened my eyes and got me looking in a whole different way. I didn't know that much about slavery, till I read Copper Sun reading it made me feel really bad for the African Americans with slavery. They had to deal with it everyday; they didn't have any say whether or not they can be slaves. They had to deal with being slaves or they could escape and run south. I thought it was really smart of Amari, Polly, and Tidbit to hide when they were running. They cared for one another, and they didn't let anything get in there way when they were running south. By reading this book it tells you a lot about the authors ancestors and you learn more by reading it.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Self-Destructive Behavior
Why would like to use self-injury behavior to cope with something? You should talk to teachers, friends, family, and other people that care about you in many ways. If you just talk to people and tell them how you feel and why you are doing this stuff to your-self. There are several different types of self-injuries. People ask all kinds of questions about self-injury. They ask what is self-destructive behavior, why do teens participate in self-destructive behavior, why is self-destructive behavior more predominant today than when your parents or grandparents were teens, and what can be done to help teens who participate in self-destruction behavior? Self-injury is one of the most deadly things in the world that people deal with on a daily bases. Most people don’t know how to deal or cop with self-injury so they take it out on them-selves. People use different types of self-injury they are several ways that they deal with it.
Self-injury is the act of attempting to alter a mood state by inflicting physical harm serious enough to cause tissue dame to one’s body. There are nine different types of self-injury behavior including curving, scratching, branding, marking, burning/abrasions, biting, bruising, hitting, and picking/pulling skin and hair. There are also four types that are not part of self-injury behavior which are sexual gratification, body decoration, spiritual enlightenment via ritual, and fitting in or being cool. For example, if you bite things or pool hair around people they would think that something is very wrong with you, but you are just using self-injury to help cover something that you are hiding. People cope with different ways to deal with self-injury. In the book CUT, Callie had cut herself and that is part of self-injury. She know people from Sea Pines or other known as Sick Minds that had eating disorders, that would cut themselves like she did and people that would eat and then make themselves sick after that would eat.
Teens participate in self-destructive behavior are caused for many different reasons. Teens think that it reduces physiological and psychological tension rapidly. Sometimes people who self-injure get emotionally overwhelmed with everyday things. Teens use self-harm brings their levels of psychological and physiological tension. They manly feel a strong uncomfortable emotion. Hurting themselves will reduce the emotional discomfort extremely quickly. Some people never get a chance to learn how to cope effectively. Learning that certain feelings weren’t allowed. Some teens were in abusive homes, may have been severely punished for expressing certain thoughts and feelings. Teens had no role models for coping with to talk to when they were upset. They learned to cope effectively with distress unless you grow up around people who are coping with effectively distress. They could have had a history of abuse and that could be common with self-injuries. Problems with neurotransmitters may play a role. They could play a role in depressions. There is a tendency toward impulsive aggression, could belief that their feelings are bad or wrong. The person how are harming himself/herself learn that self-injury reduces his level of distress. There are kinds of people that deal with self-injury. There are people that can handle self-injury and they are teachers, therapists, medical professional, lawyers, professors, and engineers. Near 50% of teenagers have been physical abuse and/or sexual abused in their childhood. Most particularly is anger or has sadness in their life. Some people have eating disorders like the people in CUT that would sometimes eat but sometimes they would sometime not eat at all.
Teens are near self-injury behavior more than predominant because of alcoholism, drug abuse, overeating, anorexia and bulimia, workaholic’s, smoking cigarettes, and forms of problems avoidance. Isn’t it just another way to describe a failed suicide attempt? No, self-injury is a maladaptive to coping mechanism, also a way to stay alive. People who inflict physical harm on themselves are often doing it to attempt suicide. They would just do this to make them feel better about themselves because they would feel better. There is unbearable feelings and pressures through self-harm to themselves, they think that it is eases for them to urge towards suicide. I think that if somebody that is using self-injury to cope for something that is suffering because of their childhood. I understand that they went through a lot in their childhood but they should talk to somebody and not take everything out on themselves just to deal with what has happened to them.
Teens that are self-destructive should talk to people and tell them how they feel and why they are cutting themselves, why they decided to have a eating disorder and not eating or eating way to much or why they want to cut themselves. If they are at school you could talk to teachers, councilors, and talk to friends that you have from school and you could tell them why you want to cut yourself or having an eating disorder. You could have an intervention and you could tell them why you are cutting yourself or having eating problems. I could help them try to be there for that person and just be there for them and just let them know that I’m there for them. I would just let them know that whatever they are doing they could stop and that we could just talk about it and that they don’t have to do this by themselves.
What would you do to help somebody that is coping with self-injury? There is a lot of ways that your could cope with self-injury behavior, you could talk to people that you trust and tell them why you are cutting yourself and why you aren’t eating anymore. Most people ask what is self-destructive behavior, do teens participate in self-destructive behavior, self-destructive behavior more predominant today than when our parents or grandparents, and what can we do to help teens. So with teens we can help them cope in many ways like being there for them and just listen to what they have to say and just be there for them and don’t back stab them.
Self-injury is the act of attempting to alter a mood state by inflicting physical harm serious enough to cause tissue dame to one’s body. There are nine different types of self-injury behavior including curving, scratching, branding, marking, burning/abrasions, biting, bruising, hitting, and picking/pulling skin and hair. There are also four types that are not part of self-injury behavior which are sexual gratification, body decoration, spiritual enlightenment via ritual, and fitting in or being cool. For example, if you bite things or pool hair around people they would think that something is very wrong with you, but you are just using self-injury to help cover something that you are hiding. People cope with different ways to deal with self-injury. In the book CUT, Callie had cut herself and that is part of self-injury. She know people from Sea Pines or other known as Sick Minds that had eating disorders, that would cut themselves like she did and people that would eat and then make themselves sick after that would eat.
Teens participate in self-destructive behavior are caused for many different reasons. Teens think that it reduces physiological and psychological tension rapidly. Sometimes people who self-injure get emotionally overwhelmed with everyday things. Teens use self-harm brings their levels of psychological and physiological tension. They manly feel a strong uncomfortable emotion. Hurting themselves will reduce the emotional discomfort extremely quickly. Some people never get a chance to learn how to cope effectively. Learning that certain feelings weren’t allowed. Some teens were in abusive homes, may have been severely punished for expressing certain thoughts and feelings. Teens had no role models for coping with to talk to when they were upset. They learned to cope effectively with distress unless you grow up around people who are coping with effectively distress. They could have had a history of abuse and that could be common with self-injuries. Problems with neurotransmitters may play a role. They could play a role in depressions. There is a tendency toward impulsive aggression, could belief that their feelings are bad or wrong. The person how are harming himself/herself learn that self-injury reduces his level of distress. There are kinds of people that deal with self-injury. There are people that can handle self-injury and they are teachers, therapists, medical professional, lawyers, professors, and engineers. Near 50% of teenagers have been physical abuse and/or sexual abused in their childhood. Most particularly is anger or has sadness in their life. Some people have eating disorders like the people in CUT that would sometimes eat but sometimes they would sometime not eat at all.
Teens are near self-injury behavior more than predominant because of alcoholism, drug abuse, overeating, anorexia and bulimia, workaholic’s, smoking cigarettes, and forms of problems avoidance. Isn’t it just another way to describe a failed suicide attempt? No, self-injury is a maladaptive to coping mechanism, also a way to stay alive. People who inflict physical harm on themselves are often doing it to attempt suicide. They would just do this to make them feel better about themselves because they would feel better. There is unbearable feelings and pressures through self-harm to themselves, they think that it is eases for them to urge towards suicide. I think that if somebody that is using self-injury to cope for something that is suffering because of their childhood. I understand that they went through a lot in their childhood but they should talk to somebody and not take everything out on themselves just to deal with what has happened to them.
Teens that are self-destructive should talk to people and tell them how they feel and why they are cutting themselves, why they decided to have a eating disorder and not eating or eating way to much or why they want to cut themselves. If they are at school you could talk to teachers, councilors, and talk to friends that you have from school and you could tell them why you want to cut yourself or having an eating disorder. You could have an intervention and you could tell them why you are cutting yourself or having eating problems. I could help them try to be there for that person and just be there for them and just let them know that I’m there for them. I would just let them know that whatever they are doing they could stop and that we could just talk about it and that they don’t have to do this by themselves.
What would you do to help somebody that is coping with self-injury? There is a lot of ways that your could cope with self-injury behavior, you could talk to people that you trust and tell them why you are cutting yourself and why you aren’t eating anymore. Most people ask what is self-destructive behavior, do teens participate in self-destructive behavior, self-destructive behavior more predominant today than when our parents or grandparents, and what can we do to help teens. So with teens we can help them cope in many ways like being there for them and just listen to what they have to say and just be there for them and don’t back stab them.
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